You know that voice, don’t you?
The one that tells you you’re not good enough. That your work isn’t ready. That you should have done better, been smarter, tried harder. It shows up when you’re about to share something meaningful, when you’re considering a brave step forward, when you’re simply trying to exist without apology.
Most of us have been taught to fight this voice. To silence it. To prove it wrong with productivity and perfection.
But what if your inner critic isn’t actually the enemy?
What if it’s just a very old, very tired part of you that’s been trying to keep you safe the only way it knows how?
Your Inner Critic Is a Protector (Just Not a Very Good One)
Here’s the truth: your inner critic developed for a reason.
Maybe you learned early that being “too much” wasn’t safe. That mistakes meant rejection. That visibility invited judgment. So a part of you stepped in to police your expression, your creativity, your voice, before anyone else could.
It thought it was helping.
The problem is, this protective voice doesn’t know the difference between real danger and perceived risk. It can’t tell the difference between sharing your art online and actual physical threat. So it treats everything, every creative act, every authentic expression, every moment of visibility, as something to be feared.
And it criticizes you, relentlessly, believing that if it can just get you to stop trying, stop being seen, stop taking up space… you’ll finally be safe.
You won’t.
You’ll just be smaller.
The Invitation: Meet Your Critic with Curiosity
These journal prompts for self discovery aren’t about fighting your inner critic or trying to make it disappear. They’re about meeting it with gentle curiosity. About understanding what it’s really trying to protect you from. About learning to respond with kindness instead of belief.
When you approach your inner critic this way, not as an enemy, but as a misguided protector, something shifts. The volume lowers. The grip loosens. And slowly, you remember that you’re allowed to trust yourself again.
Grab your journal. Find a quiet moment. Let yourself write honestly, without editing or performing.
Here’s where we begin.
Prompt 1: What Does Your Inner Critic Actually Say?
Write down, word for word, what your inner critic tells you most often.
Don’t soften it. Don’t make it sound nicer than it is. Let yourself see the actual language it uses. “You’re not talented enough.” “Who do you think you are?” “Everyone will see right through you.”
Now, read it back as if someone you love deeply had just said these things to you.
How would you respond to them? What would you want them to know?
Write that response. With the same gentleness you’d offer a dear friend who was hurting.
This prompt helps you create distance between you and the critical voice. It’s not truth. It’s just old programming.
Prompt 2: When Did This Voice First Appear?
Think back. When do you first remember hearing this kind of criticism, whether from inside your own head or from someone else?
What was happening in your life? What were you trying to express, create, or become?
Write about that moment without judgment. You were just a person trying to navigate the world. Trying to figure out how to be loved, how to be safe, how to belong.
What did that younger version of you need to hear? What reassurance, what permission, what truth?
Write it to them now.
Your inner critic often echoes voices from your past. When you recognize its origin, you can stop treating it as gospel.
Prompt 3: What Is It Trying to Protect You From?
This is the most important question.
Underneath all that harsh criticism, what is your inner critic actually afraid will happen if you move forward? If you create? If you’re fully visible?
Rejection? Judgment? Failure? Being “too much”?
Write it out. Let the fear be named.
Then ask: Is this fear based on what’s actually happening now, or what happened before?
And finally: What if you could hold this fear gently and move forward anyway?
You’re allowed to be afraid and brave at the same time.
When you understand what your inner critic is protecting you from, you can address the real fear instead of just fighting the critical voice.
Prompt 4: How Do You Feel Toward Your Inner Critic?
Not what it says to you, but how do you feel about it?
Angry? Exhausted? Resentful? Scared of it?
Write honestly about your relationship with this voice. Does it feel like a bully? A worried parent? A scared child?
The goal here isn’t to like your inner critic. It’s to stop giving it so much power by recognizing it as separate from you.
You are not your inner critic. It’s a part of your psychological landscape, yes. But it’s not the whole story. Not even close.
Naming your emotional response to the critic itself creates space between you and its judgments.
Prompt 5: What Would Your Life Look Like Without This Voice Running the Show?
Imagine, just for a moment, that your inner critic’s volume was turned way down.
What would you create? What would you say? How would you show up?
Write about that version of your life. Not as fantasy, but as genuine possibility.
Who would you be if you trusted yourself? If you believed your creative voice mattered? If you moved through the world without constantly second-guessing every choice?
You don’t have to know how to get there yet. Just let yourself imagine what’s on the other side of all that self-criticism.
This prompt reconnects you with your desires underneath the fear. It reminds you what you’re actually working toward.
How to Use These Prompts
You don’t have to answer all five in one sitting.
In fact, I’d encourage you not to. These journal prompts for self discovery work best when you give yourself space between them. A day. A week. However long you need to let each one settle.
Write without editing. Let the words be messy, incomplete, true.
And remember: the goal isn’t to “fix” your inner critic or make it go away entirely. It’s to change your relationship with it. To stop believing everything it says. To recognize it as one voice among many: not the voice of truth.
The more you practice meeting your inner critic with curiosity instead of compliance, the quieter it becomes. Not because you’ve defeated it, but because you’ve stopped feeding it your belief.
Ready to Unfold?
If you want to stop overthinking and start creating from a place of self-trust, this is exactly what we explore together inside my Unfold Sessions.
It’s a soft, 1:1 space for reflection and reconnection—a place to quiet the noise and hear your own voice again. We’ll look at what’s in the way of your expression and gently loosen its hold, so you can bring your vision to life in a way that feels grounded and completely yours.
You can read more about how it works here or, if you’re ready to dive in, you can book your Unfold Session here.
With much love,
Maria
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