Many people believe that the law of attraction means making yourself available and open to your desires.
They think that if they just believe that they will get what they want, put their intent out there into the universe by thought, that they will get all that they want.
This is simply not how the law of attraction work… at least not in my personal experience.
Yours may differ of course.
I wondered so how does one use the law of attraction effectively?
Later, I found that there are three important steps to attracting what you want into your life.
You have to have faith that you deserve and can have all that you want.
Believe fully that you can get what you are asking from the universe.
This is easier said than done for a lot of people.
In order to fully believe that you can attract your desires, you have to first have enough confidence in yourself that you feel you truly deserve those things.
If you do not have confidence, you cannot attract anything.
Without confidence, negative thinking will invade, and the law of attraction cannot work.
You have to be able to continuously think positively,
and continue to believe that you will be able to attract what you want most.
You cannot simply believe that you want something to happen.
That is an important step, of course, and one that is necessary for the law of attraction to work.
But it is up to you to put the ball into play.
You have to take the right actions to attract what you want.
For example, if you want a promotion, you have to make yourself attractive for the promotion to occur.
- That means working hard,
- meeting deadlines,
- and maybe going above and beyond the scope of your typical duties.
Believing you can get a promotion but not performing your job to the best of your ability will likely get you nowhere.
You are trying to attract desires to you,
which means you have to be attractive to the universe to meet them.
Believing that it is possible and working toward those goals are important.
But the ultimate goal is happiness.
True happiness is something that is achieved while attaining your utmost goals and dreams.
- When you learn to be happy with what you have,
- and you live a positive and happy life every day,
- you make yourself more attractive to the universe and future successes.
Happiness is truly the key to making the law of attraction work.
You have to be able to sit back and think,
“Wow, this has been a really great day/week/month/year.”
When you seek happiness, believe that the universe will deliver,
and put forth the necessary effort,
you could have everything you dreamed and more.
Of course, the process doesn’t have to be difficult and these strategies will help.
If you need extra help, of course, feel free to reach out.